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NGIBI IBIZAGUFASHA KUTAYOBORWA NA EMOTION

NUDAKORA IBI HAKIRI KARE UZICUZA

 Mu gihe abantu bageze ku myaka 45, hari ibintu byinshi bicuza mu buryo bw'iyobokamana, ibyo batakoze cyangwa batitayeho mu rugendo rwabo rwo kwizera nk'abakirisitu:







1. **Kudasha kumenya Imana bihagije**

   - benshi bicuza kuba baratinze kwinjira mu mubano wihariye n'Imana binyuze mu isengesho ryimbitse, gusoma Bibiliya, no kwiga neza ijambo ry’Imana.


2. **Kutagira uruhare rufatika mu rusengero**

   - Benshi bashobora kwicuza kuba bataragize uruhare mu bikorwa by’itorero cyangwa kutifatanya n'abandi mu rusengero kugira ngo babafashe mu rugendo rwabo rw'ubukirisitu.


 3. **Kudatinya icyaha mu buzima bwabo**

   - Bashobora kwicuza kuba bataraboneyeho igihe cyo kwisuzuma ngo bisubireho cyangwa ngo bigire ku makosa yabo maze biyegurire Imana neza,  migihe baribafite umwanya.


 4. **Kutagira umuhate wo kubwiriza ubutumwa bwiza**

   - Benshi bicuza kuba batarasangije abandi ijambo ry’Imana mu buryo buhagije, ngo bababwire inkuru nziza y’agakiza, bagira ubwoba cyangwa bakabura ukwizera kugira ngo babiharanire.


5. **Kunanirwa gusabana n’abandi abakirisitu**

   - Kwibagirwa kubaka umubano n’abandi mu buryo bw’imyizerere cyangwa kutagira ishyaka ryo kuba hamwe n’abandi bagendana mu kwizera bishobora kuzana ipfunwe ko batabashije kubaka uwo muryango wa gikirisitu.


 6. **Kunanirwa kwita ku bw’umwuka**

   - Benshi bashobora kwicuza kuba bataritayeho kwizera kwabo cyangwa ngo bashake uburyo bwo gukura mu buryo bw’umwuka, 


7. **Kutita ku muryango ngo ubahe umurongo wa gikirisitu**

   - Bashobora kwicuza kuba batashoboye kuyobora neza imiryango yabo mu murongo wa gikirisitu, nko gusenga hamwe, kwigisha abana ijambo ry’Imana, cyangwa gushyiraho imyitwarire iboneye mu rugo.


 8. **Kubura imbabazi no kubika inzika**

   - Bashobora kwicuza kuba barananiwe guha abandi imbabazi, bityo bikabangamira ubwumvikane n’amahoro mu mibanire yabo, mu gihe Yesu yabasabye gukunda no kubabarira.


 9. **Kudaha agaciro ibikorwa by’urukundo n’imbabazi**

   - Abakirisitu bashobora kwicuza kuba bataragize uruhare runini mu gufasha abatishoboye, mu bikorwa by’ubugiraneza cyangwa ibikorwa by'urukundo, bakagendera ku byo bifitiye inyungu gusa.


10. **Kutagirira Imana icyizere muri byose**

   - Bamwe bashobora kwicuza ko bamaze imyaka myinshi bahangayikishijwe n’ibibazo by’ubuzima aho kwiringira Imana mu buzima bwabo bwa buri munsi, kandi Imana idusaba kwizera umugambi wayo mu bihe byose.


Ibi bicuza bishingiye ku kuba abantu batashoboye gushyira Imana imbere mu buzima bwabo, kandi ibyo bibaha amahirwe yo kwiyemeza guhindura imigendekere y’ubuzima bwabo bagendeye ku ijambo ry’Imana.   NB.      murakoze basomyi beza urashobora kudufasha ukabisangiza nabandi kugirango ubutumwa bwiza bukomeze bugere kuri bose kandi wanatwerekako wakunze buno butumwa utwandikiye muri comment cg uka dukurikirana ukanze kuri following

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