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 Mu gihe abantu bageze ku myaka 45, hari ibintu byinshi bicuza mu buryo bw'iyobokamana, ibyo batakoze cyangwa batitayeho mu rugendo rwabo rwo kwizera nk'abakirisitu: 1. **Kudasha kumenya Imana bihagije**    - benshi bicuza kuba baratinze kwinjira mu mubano wihariye n'Imana binyuze mu isengesho ryimbitse, gusoma Bibiliya, no kwiga neza ijambo ry’Imana. 2. **Kutagira uruhare rufatika mu rusengero**    - Benshi bashobora kwicuza kuba bataragize uruhare mu bikorwa by’itorero cyangwa kutifatanya n'abandi mu rusengero kugira ngo babafashe mu rugendo rwabo rw'ubukirisitu.  3. **Kudatinya icyaha mu buzima bwabo**    - Bashobora kwicuza kuba bataraboneyeho igihe cyo kwisuzuma ngo bisubireho cyangwa ngo bigire ku makosa yabo maze biyegurire Imana neza,  migihe baribafite umwanya.  4. **Kutagira umuhate wo kubwiriza ubutumwa bwiza**    - Benshi bicuza kuba batarasangije abandi ijambo ry’Imana mu buryo buhagije, ngo bababwire inkuru nziza ...

 Ibihendo by'ubutunzi ni inyigisho, imyizerere, cyangwa ibikorwa bishobora kuyobya abantu bakizera ko ubutunzi cyangwa amafaranga ari byo byonyine bishobora kubaha umunezero, umutekano, cyangwa agaciro mu buzima. Mu rwego rwa gikirisitu, ibi bihendo bishobora kubangamira ukwemera kwa muntu n’umubano we n’Imana. Dore bimwe mu bihendo by’ubutunzi: 1. **Gukunda Ifaranga birengeje Urugero:**    - Gukunda amafaranga birenze urugero bituma umuntu akora ibishoboka byose ngo ayabone, ariko bikamutera kugendera kure kw'icyo Imana ishaka ko akora. Bibiliya ivuga ko "urukundo rw'amafaranga ari umuzi w'ibibi byose" (1 Timoteyo 6:10). 2. **Kwizera ko Ubutunzi butanga Umutekano:**    - Abantu bamwe batekereza ko bafite umutekano mu gihe bafite amafaranga menshi cyangwa umutungo. Nyamara, Bibiliya itubwira ko ukwizera kwacu gukwiye gushyirwa ku Mana, atari ku butunzi bw'isi buhita.  3. **Gutekereza ko Ubutunzi ari Icyerekana Imana Yakugiriye Neza:**    - Hari ab...

 Mu buryo bwa gikristu, ni byiza gushaka ubusabane n’Imana mu bikorwa byacu no mu byifuzo byacu byose, harimo no ku bijyanye n’amafaranga. Dore inzira n’uburyo bwo guhuza inyota yawe n’ibyifuzo byawe by’amafaranga n’ukwemera kwawe: 1. Gushyira Imana imbere Gusenga : Usaba Imana ubuyobozi mu byifuzo byawe byose, harimo n’inyota yo kubona amafaranga. Kwizera : Kwizera ko Imana izaguha ibyo ukeneye, ariko igahora ikora ibiruta ibyo wibwira. Kwiyegurira : Kumenya ko amafaranga atari yo mugenzi nyakuri, ahubwo Imana ni yo mugenzi w’ukuri.   2. Kwitwararika mu mikoreshereze y’amafaranga Kugira umuco wo kwizigamira : Kwizigamira no gucunga neza amafaranga yinjira ni uburyo bwo kugaragaza ukuntu wita ku byifuzo byawe. Gukoresha amafaranga mu buryo bwiza : Gukoresha amafaranga mu bikorwa byubaka, nk’iterambere ry’umuryango n’ubufasha ku bandi, bigaragaza ukwiyegurira ku mana. 3. Gutanga no gufasha abandi Gutanga : Koresha amafaranga mu gufasha abakene cyangwa ibikorwa by’ubutabazi...

 nku mubyeyi hari myaka umwana ageramo agakubagana cane bitera umuhangayiko cane ariko siwowe wenyine uhura nico kibazo dore inama wakurikiza mugihe uhuye nico kibazo     komeza utuze : Igihe umwana arakaye cyangwa akubaganira, gerageza kugumana umutuzo. Kwigiramo amahoro bishobora kugabanya ubukana bw’ibibazo. Hindura Inyurabwenge (Redirect Attention) : Gerageza kumurangaza umwereka ikindi kintu cyiza cyangwa gishimishije, aho gukomeza kwibanda ku kintu kimurakaje. Umutege Amatwi : Shaka ikintu cyateye umwana kwitwara atyo. Igihe cyose bishoboka, mumve neza kandi umwereke ko wumva impamvu ye. guma ku Mahame : Niba hari amabwiriza yari yashyizweho, komera kuri ayo mahame ariko ubikore mu buryo butuje kandi bwita ku mwana. Mureke Ashire uburakarakari (Give Time to Cool Down) : Reka umwana abanze agabanye uburakari cyangwa kurakara. Igihe yatuje, ushobora kongera kumuganiriza witonze. Kwitonda no kumenya igihe cyo kuvuga no kureka umwana agatuza bishobora kugufasha kum...